i have a similar config to yours, except mine doesn't have "set interfaces ge-0/0/3 unit 90 family bridge"
maybe remove that and see what happens
set interfaces ae141 flexible-vlan-tagging
set interfaces ae141 encapsulation flexible-ethernet-services
set interfaces ae141 aggregated-ether-options lacp active
...
set interfaces ae141 unit 210 encapsulation vlan-bridge
set interfaces ae141 unit 210 vlan-id 210
set routing-instances my-evpn-01-vxlan bridge-domains bridge-0210 vlan-id 210
set routing-instances my-evpn-01-vxlan bridge-domains bridge-0210 interface ae141.210
set routing-instances my-evpn-01-vxlan bridge-domains bridge-0210 routing-interface irb.210
set routing-instances my-evpn-01-vxlan bridge-domains bridge-0210 vxlan vni 10210
root@960> show bridge evpn arp-table instance my-evpn-01-vxlan bridge-domain bridge-0210
INET MAC Logical Routing Bridging
address address interface instance domain
139.139.253.1 00:00:00:00:00:d2 irb.210 my-evpn-01-vxlan bridge-0210
139.139.253.5 24:bf:cb:24:08:05 vtep.32770 my-evpn-01-vxlan bridge-0210
139.139.253.9 76:a3:dc:26:08:05 ae141.210 my-evpn-01-vxlan bridge-0210
root@960> show bridge mac-table instance my-evpn-01-vxlan bridge-domain bridge-0210
MAC flags (S -static MAC, D -dynamic MAC, L -locally learned, C -Control MAC
O -OVSDB MAC, SE -Statistics enabled, NM -Non configured MAC, R -Remote PE MAC, P -Pinned MAC)
Routing instance : my-evpn-01-vxlan
Bridging domain : bridge-0210, VLAN : 210
MAC MAC Logical Active
address flags interface source
24:bf:cb:24:07:dc DR vtep.32770 123.123.128.5
24:bf:cb:24:08:05 DR vtep.32770 123.123.128.5
76:a3:dc:26:08:05 D ae141.210
root@960> show route table my-evpn-01-vxlan.evpn.0 evpn-ethernet-tag-id 10210 active-path terse | except ^\*
my-evpn-01-vxlan.evpn.0: 14 destinations, 22 routes (14 active, 0 holddown, 0 hidden)
+ = Active Route, - = Last Active, * = Both
A V Destination P Prf Metric 1 Metric 2 Next hop AS path
2:123.123.128.5:5001::10210::00:00:00:00:00:d2/304 MAC/IP
2:123.123.128.5:5001::10210::24:bf:cb:24:07:dc/304 MAC/IP
2:123.123.128.5:5001::10210::24:bf:cb:24:08:05/304 MAC/IP
2:123.123.128.9:5001::10210::00:00:00:00:00:d2/304 MAC/IP
2:123.123.128.9:5001::10210::76:a3:dc:26:08:05/304 MAC/IP
2:123.123.128.5:5001::10210::00:00:00:00:00:d2::139.139.253.1/304 MAC/IP
2:123.123.128.5:5001::10210::24:bf:cb:24:08:05::139.139.253.5/304 MAC/IP
2:123.123.128.9:5001::10210::00:00:00:00:00:d2::139.139.253.1/304 MAC/IP
2:123.123.128.9:5001::10210::76:a3:dc:26:08:05::139.139.253.9/304 MAC/IP
3:123.123.128.5:5001::10210::123.123.128.5/248 IM
3:123.123.128.9:5001::10210::123.123.128.9/248 IM
root@960> show l2-learning vxlan-tunnel-end-point remote ip 123.123.128.5
MAC flags (S -static MAC, D -dynamic MAC, L -locally learned, C -Control MAC
SE -Statistics enabled, NM -Non configured MAC, R -Remote PE MAC , P -Pinned MAC)
Logical system : <default>
Routing instance : my-evpn-01-vxlan
Bridging domain : bridge-0210+210, VLAN : 210
VXLAN ID : 10210, Multicast Group IP : 0.0.0.0
Remote VTEP : 123.123.128.5, Nexthop ID : 865
MAC MAC Logical Remote VTEP
address flags interface IP address
24:bf:cb:24:07:dc DR vtep.32770 123.123.128.5
24:bf:cb:24:08:05 DR vtep.32770 123.123.128.5
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- Aaron
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