family route-target is a nice optimization to avoid sending useless vpn-v4/v6 routes between PEs, by sending each PE only the route-targets routes it is interested by.
So, it's interesting to have family route-target in all your iBGP sessions.
Because the route-reflectors, by definition, must receive all the routes, they are interested by all the route-targets. So when you configure this family on them, you can «optimize the optimization» by configuring a default route-target on the route-reflectors (meaning «send me all» instead of letting them re-advertise all the route-targets they see (therefore in route-target family they will only advertise this default).
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Olivier Benghozi
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